Though SUDT, is on the thinner side for viscosity of hydraulic transmission oils, 75-90w, or 80-90w gear oil, is not substantially heavier than hydraulic transmission oil.
It's a popular misconception. But, gear oil is not rated on the same scale.
People think of gear oil as heavy thick oil. Some gear oil is. 80-90w is not like that.
You can see this by doing a pour test. OR, your own timed viscosity test.
They are both about the same viscosity. Both are lightweight GL-4 or better, gear oil. That's why they are interchangeable in many applications.
For reference, at room temperature, 30w motor oil, 80-90w gear oil, and Hydraulic transmission oil, are all about the same viscosity.
The viscosity of a given oil, does vary widely by brand.
The reason gear oil is generally better in a differential is, EP designated gear oil, is designed specifically for applications with hypoid gears. i.e. a differential. This is because, hypoid gears create extreme pressures.
A synthetic EP gear oil is usually ideal.
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