Seems like you have some experience. I build stone driveways for a living. I have never done a millings driveway so I tore my beautiful stone driveway out and put this in. The base is so hard I cannot tear it up with my boxblade or my bucket. It is like a rock and 16 inches deep. Been in for years. I put in screened millings at about 3 inches deep before rolling. I have no idea the age of the millings or anything like that. No I am not going to diesel them or oil them. The driveway right now is as hard as any gravel driveway can get except for the very very top. If I turn my foot on it I can make a mark. I can drive my truck or tractor in a straight line with no tracks. It is like a dust on top that is irritating. I want to seal it and be done with it but want to do it the best I can.
I admit to being a little confused. Why would you take out a stone (I assume you don't mean gravel) driveway to install a recycled blacktop millings 3 inches thick. Isn't the goal of a driveway to be hard and even and maintenance free? It would seem you already had that and took it out.
Personally, my driveway (about 175 feet long and a big apron too) - is concrete (with colorant). If I didn't do concrete I would have done a contained edge and used a heavy base of gravel with compaction - and then with an over-layer of tailings/millings because I don't like blacktop. In heat - blacktop goes soft which means marking and wheel compaction lines. And lets also remember that blacktop is allergic to gasoline or oil spills (as well as other fluids).
What I love about tailings/millings applied over a solid base is it represents everything blacktop IS NOT. Its weed free, it doesn't hurt the ground or environment, it doesn't rut or mark, and it doesn't need maintenance like blacktop (like sealing). An inch or so on a solid compacted firm base of gravel (not subject to water mushing) offers good traction and is forgiving to heavy rains, snow, and heavy vehicles.
Now course grain recycled blacktop is a different story. It gets directly mixed in with the blacktop making process - to offer bulk and reuse of petroleum components. Its not designed to be used by itself as I've ever seen.
Stone driveway ? wow - sounds nice. My the way, I have heard of fine millings of recycled blacktop used with pavers or larger pavers in a unique driveway surface that is superior and more stable than "sanding" in pavers or larger decorative slab pieces.