OUCH! I can't imagine it.
We have two kids. We gave them a choice.
- Here's what mom and dad saved for you in the 529 college savings plan.
- Here's what we'll continue to contribute each of the first 4 years.
- We expect you to contribute the rest through loans, working, and your personal savings.
- You can go to college anywhere you want.
- If you go more than an 8 hour drive away, we'll fly you home for Thanksgiving OR Christmas, but not both, and summers.
- If you go to an Indiana state college, it's half the cost of what other state's charge for out-of-state.
- If you go to private schools(in or out of state), they are generally smaller, cost a lot more, but give more generous financial awards, and almost always comes a bit more expensive than a state college in-state tuition.
- If you go to the local branch of the state college, it's $7K per year with free room and board at mom and dad's as long as you stay in school.
- Choose wisely....
They both chose to go away to state school. And I'm happy for both. It gets them away from mom and dad. They have to make decisions on their own, forage for food when they're hungry, clean their own clothes, learn to use public transportation, etc... and, if something bad happens (or something good, too!!) we're only a few hours away.
Each put in about 1/3 of the costs themselves from money saved from working, we cover 1/3 with 529 college savings plans (about $20-$25 per week since they were little, plus interest) and $5K in cash, and they both earned academic scholarships that cover the last 1/3.
The $5K in cash is not an arbitrary number.... day care cost us $100 per week = $5K per year. Catholic grade school was a little less than that, and Catholic high school was a little more, but it averaged out to about $5K in tuition costs for the first 18 years of their lives. So we were used to paying that much each year so we continued it for their college years.
Grad school is on their own. The oldest one worked during college all 4 years at the dorm front desk, and summers painting dorms, setting up conferences, etc... and saved enough from that and the cash we contributed to get a grub-stake to get through 2 years of grad school and a master's degree with $30K in debt. Not bad.
Younger one will have no debt comming out of 4 year in 2020, and a pretty large cash reserve (kid works a lot in summer), so we estimate that will last about 2.5 years into 4 year grad school, and probably well into 3rd year before loans come into the picture.
I have siblings in their 60's that have just recently paid off their college debt. I worked my way through school while living at home with my folks until I was 24 and got out debt free (thanks mom and dad).
I'm not a financial planner, and I didn't sleep at a Holiday Inn last night, so take this for what it's worth....
I'd suggest to any young person with kids, or thinking about kids...
Seriously look into 529 college savings plans, or ROTH IRA's (more versatile), as a college savings plan and start as soon as they are born! Not when they are 5 or 6. Not when they start high school. Start as soon as they are born. Just $25 per week adds up to about $25K in 18 years, and the interest it'll earn if invested in mutual funds will proabably double it. Look at funds that are tied to risk, and lowers the risk each year as the kid gets closer to college age.
Give them some options as to how to spend that money wisely, and make some good decisions as to where they want to attend college. They can get a very good education at a very reasonable price if they plan well and work hard. :thumbsup: