Sigarms
Super Member
Here's how I see it. Every relationship has a beginning. Given a choice, I'd rather tee off a relative than a neighbor. Yep, I'm sure sometimes the fence needs to go up a bit higher. I've also spent enough of legal fees to buy a new fancy pickup and trust me, I'd rather have that money and energy that went into the whole system than to do it over again. I don't dislike attorneys, they have their place. You can always see if there is a solution or at least have a face to face to get a feel for the situation. Then at least you can look across the desk and tell the man or woman with all the law books behind them where you think this thing is going to go.
I don't disagree with you, but keep in mind, the house up the road has already been sold and is being rented out, and not once did the new owner inform the OP of anything that was or is going on or looking for feedback (or at least had not mentioned otherwise). That tells me enough that the next time I see this "neighbor", I'd better know what my leagle rights are up front.
When we first moved into our area, we actually stopped by all of neighbors just to introduce ourselves and invited them to our house. We later found out that we bought our home from a local who we found out later wasn't a very nice guy to the neighbors (he moved across the field to his dads house with 250 acres).