Acquiring knowledge when it comes to hydraulics can be a big challenge. A big part of the challenge is misinformed people who post stuff on youtube which clearly flies in the face of any hydraulic principles.
Simple gear pumps with fixed displacement are used because they are much cheaper than the variable displacement pumps usually used in closed center systems.
For about $150 you can buy a flow combiner or a flow divider. . The first to combine the output of two pumps. The second to feed two independent circuits. .The combiner will work even if olne pump stops
The same device will do either job.
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I know this is not the answer you are looking for but there is no easy way outside a formal classroom setting and studying for a year or three.
If you have specific needs then perhaps you can be guided to a solution. The flow and pressure measuring instruments you need, to in effect become a designer of your own system, are very expensive.
As the size of the piece of equipment becomes larger, its operating costs become more significant. Further the equipment is built to run much longer than a typical farm tractor so efficiency in operation becomes important. It becomes worthwhile to incorporate variable displacement pumps and use accumulators to handle short peak flows. The last time I asked PARKER for a quote on an accumulator which would deliver 6 gpm for 30 seconds its cost was that of a new small tractor.
Dave
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