Becoming debt free then moving to being financially independent can bring more tractors your way down the road. The son and his new wife are working hard to make the old place with a run down house and a large shop into a starter home at 22. It is hard for them but down the road better than a $700+ a month apartment. He said his friends are looking at saving for 10 years before they buy their first home. It is hard for young people with no wealth and or credit history to even get home and car insurance at good rates plus the age thing. Dave may be hard to swallow some days days but it pays down the road. You are doing better than most to learn such things at a young age.
That’s great they are in a house at 22, i was 24 when I bought my house and I just barely got it bought. Conventional 20 year.
I didn’t find Dave till after I bought my house. My mortgage payment was close to, one year was over 50% of my take home, on top of other bills and expenses the house needed I started to get really bummed out. So I bought a tractor and got into cattle, chickens etc. it really helped me stay positive. It was mostly funded by rent from a room mate at the time and side jobs.
I got to the point where I felt like I was drowning, I was scared to death to lose my job because I didn’t have any money to get me by. Depression kicked in, the future looked really bleak scratching and clawing for every penny. I had been sick and tired of being sick and tired long before I found Dave at that point.
Him taking about what it’s like to be debt free and have a fully funded emergency fund, sounded like a dream. The question that really hit home for me was when he asked (Dave Ramsey youtube video rant) “if you would work at the same place you work now if you were out of debt?” I only planned to be at my job for 2-3 years and move on doing what I do now for more money somewhere else. I have been so scared to leave, because I don’t have an emergency fund, this March will be 7 years lol.
I eventually said screw it and started selling everything, including the tractor. It took almost two years of making payments on the tractor to build up enough equity to knock out most of the debt I had. Not having the tractor payment and being so close to paying off other debts relieved so much stress already.
My biggest mistake was buying a house with debt and being house poor. According to Dave’s rule: 15 year mortgage, no more than 1/4 take home pay. I tech don’t make enough for the house I live in. Lol
Now that the market is inflated, not a chance I could buy my house today, I bought when the market was just beginning to recover from the great recession.
Buying a house today would be 5x harder than even what I went threw, it would demand me to have a second income to do it. Kudos to the young folks that get it done in this market.
Unfortunately it will be the better part of this year to be fully out of debt not including my house, but then I’ll start looking for another job most likely. I have had 3 offers for jobs making 5-6 bucks an hour more than I make now. I played it safe and stayed where I am, where I know I have job security and get the bills paid. Well I haven’t fully decided if I’ll stay here for 10 years or not, I have 38 years before I can draw social security so what’s the rush? Lol