Citydude, I'm glad your friend is recovered and yes I do wish we could hear more positive news. But I also think that positive news gets used as an excuse to say "see, it's not that bad". Your friend may be one of the lucky ones to have got it early on before our healthcare system gets overloaded. That is what we need to prevent. If that happens, things get ugly really fast. See, Italy. If we can slow this thing down enough that the healthcare system can stock up and add capacity and is able to deal with the extreme cases, then hopefully we all come away saying see, it wasn't that bad.
I'm really concerned with the effect of shutting down the economy, somewhere there needs to be some compromise as the total collapse of our economy will kill more people in different ways than a virus. I'm fortunate that I work for a food producer. My wife works in the food industry too. We want to think our jobs are safe. My daughter and her fiance have already been laid off, but as long as my wife and I stay employed, we can help them get by. We have been under shelter in place orders for over a week, I can work mostly from home. My wife must go to work, fortunately minimal exposure to others. Some restaurants are trying to stay open, some trying to reinvent... but they are doing a fraction of the business and they are dropping out one by one. My daughter's fiance works for a food delivery company, unfortunately, they deliver mostly to restaurants, caterers and events. They are shut down due to lack of orders.
Now I'm babbling... I'm scared.. really scared for America right now. I hope that people will take responsibility to do what they can to reduce the impact of the virus. I hope that as we figure out this new reality, we find some strange balance between health and economics. But I know it's all going to get worse before it gets better. Right now, there is no light at the end of the tunnel..