My fiancé is on edge and bored. She commented recently "I did not expect this when I decided to retire" . She expected to be able to travel and have fun. She got upset when I told her a significant part of my retirement has been lost and it will impact how we live going forward. DUHHHH!!
I have no debt and unless my SS payments wind up being next to worthless (with the coming inflation/devaluation), we will not starve...but it is not the life either of us had hoped for. Of course, the first priority is surviving the virus. Being hunkered down in the middle of nowhere is not fun but safe IF we do it. Yesterday I did a stupid thing and acquiesced to going to the Dollar store to pick up crap we did not need. We had been contact free for over two weeks until yesterday....so now the clock starts again. Just a dumb thing to do. I will NOT do it again.
In fairness, for weeks I was house bound with a broken ankle. I encouraged her to go out without me but my being laid up impacted our already limited social life.
The next month will be telling. The ever increasing death toll should help convince her why we need to be smart.
I think this is going to put a strain on many couples...