The answer to the original question is "NO", you should not hijack the ground to act as a return to neutral. For one thing, it would have to travel all the way back to your main service entrance panel (only place where ground and neutral are bonded) so it would bypass any sub-panels. The other problem is that the ground wire is now a current carrying wire all the time, and other ground wires in the system could be affected too. Ground should only ever carry current in the case of a failure or emergency.
Funny thing about AC power, we tend to think of the black wire as "hot" and the white wire as "neutral". In terms of fundamental AC, they are interchangeable and equally energized. The neutral is not as dangerous in the sense that it is already unified with the ground system, so it won't have a potential relative to ground, or metal parts of grounded equipment, or a properly grounded metallic plumbing system. If neutral comes into contact with any of those things, it won't be an issue. But it's still an energized point in the electrical system and needs respect.