Not sure what the travelling clutch has to do with the pto engagement in as much as 99% of tractors made in the last 30 years are live pto (which means the pto has nothing to do with the travelling clutch and is driven with a wet clutch pack inside the transmission). The travelling clutch should be fully engaged before engaging the pto clutch and the motor should be at an idle or just above an idle when engaging to mitigate wear on the pto clutch plates.
Running the pto up to speed (not engaged and then engaging the pto will only hasten the demise of the pto clutch pack and nothing else and you won't 'love' the replacement cost as it involves a teardown of the gearbox in most cases.