MossRoad
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- Joined
- Aug 31, 2001
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- 57,990
- Location
- South Bend, Indiana (near)
- Tractor
- Power Trac PT425 2001 Model Year
Wife and I have similar arrangement. We used to discuss purchases over $100. As the years went by, the amount went up. But still, if I'm going to buy something, I tell her just out of courtesy. She does the same. We kind of keep an account balance in our head, but even that is unnecessary at this stage in our life. About the only reason I ever go to the financial institution is to pick my wife up for lunch.... she works there.My wife is similar - never able to balance a checkbook, or manage finances, so thats my job, We have an agreement if it's over like $250 we discuss it first. She's always finding "deals" especially on dresses, oh look how much I saved us today! Not expensive, $100-200 typically, and usually one or two a month.
For her its clothes and shoes, and me it's tractors, tools, and chainsaws, she asks, do you need 6 saws honey? I am of the mindset, wear out the old one first, and fixing things like hoe and shovel handles rather than buying new..
I can't buy a gift for her without her knowing I took some money out of the account or charged something.
One day I bought a candy bar out of a vending machine and 5 minutes later she texted me asking what I was eating?