Looking at the diagrams is your loader hooked up to the AB (5,6) ports or in line with the 3pt hitch on port 1.
You probably have already checked but did the AB port valve on top of the valve get moved by accident?
Another thing you can check before you remove the relief valve is to see if any fluid is coming out of port 4. take current drain back hose off and install another hose to a bucket then start tractor. If nothing coming out hose then relief valve is fine.
If relief valve is ok then I would remove the flow divider assemble and check o-rings.
Looking at the diagrams is your loader hooked up to the AB (5,6) ports or in line with the 3pt hitch on port 1.
You probably have already checked but did the AB port valve on top of the valve get moved by accident?
Another thing you can check before you remove the relief valve is to see if any fluid is coming out of port 4. take current drain back hose off and install another hose to a bucket then start tractor. If nothing coming out hose then relief valve is fine.
If relief valve is ok then I would remove the flow divider assemble and check o-rings.
Might be a good idea to back up a little and do some testing. We would recommend testing the output pressures at one of the steering cylinder lines, one of the Front Loader lines, and at the rear remotes. The output pressures at any of the three should relief at about 2300psi. The priority valve is pilot operated to assure priority flow is to the steering system. If the priority pilot in the priority valve block isn't responding properly, it could cause flow problems through the joystick valve. It would be good to know what the system is doing by pressure testing all 3 locations.
Hope this helps
Leaking seal in your loader would not cause this issue besides it would be normal on the other set of cylinders that are not effected. My money would be on the flow divider valve or the pump itself. I would probably start with taking out the flow divider and seeing if it looks ok no torn o-rings or anything stuck in it (#1 on right side, middle image of your manual pics). Your loader valve does not have a relief valve, it uses the main relief on the flow divider block.
If flow divider looks ok then would get a gauge and test your main system pressure on one of the loader ports or at the backhoe ports. I have seen cases that the pump will not build any flow when lower back pressure due to internal leakage of seals but stop the flow a lot it will build good pressure.