Well after some phone time with the very helpful folks at the W.R. Long company I was convinced that I had plumbed the 3rd function valve incorrectly, and had plumbed it to the "P" for "Pump" end of the valve and not the "PB" or "Power Beyond" end of the pump. Since all the lines to the loader valve come from the rear of the tractor, I made the assumption that the "P" meant "Power-beyond" and I didn't notice the letters "PB" on the bottom of the loader valve because it was dirty and I didn't clean it well enough to read it when I first tried this. My great mistake! Anyhow, I re-hooked it all up to the correct "Power Beyond" port of the loader valve and it seems to work now. I still have leaky grapple lines to replace and hope to get to that chore tomorrow.
I did find that the Westendorf grapple lines make a sharp 180 degree bend inside the moving grapple jaw and I will try to find a way around that when I go to the hose shop tomorrow. I just don't think these hoses will last very long making that sharp 180 inside the grapple jaw. maybe I'll get this project finished this weekend.