Ok so after testing and emailing the dealer looks like its going back. They can figure it out. I'm guessing something is hooked up wrong from mahindra.
I pulled the staybilizer pressure line off. 2600 psi. I pulled the quick connect off rear remote on tractor and got 4000psi and climbing. Hmm he said it should be on the relief circuit at 2950 psi. Its not. And I don't think the loader is either, it really bogs down the motor while raising or dumping without even a load on it.
Maybe that's why the bango bolt kept leaking, 4000psi+ could def, blow a little rubber washer!!
He also has another 4035 with loaded tires with 485 backhoe( its actually a 50b)(now that I looked at it close) and it would not lift the machine with just the staybilizers. However putting the hoe bucket down he could lift the machine right up. Mine won't move it but 1/2" past what the stayblizers will do.
Stupid, what ever wrong. Stupid.
If anybody has any ideas before I bring it back let me know.