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If it was me, I'd look at nothing smaller than the 24hp compact tractors, my favorite is my TC24, but I feel it is on the small side for your property. With a 24hp you can easily power a 60" mower deck with one of those and have enough power for thick heavy grass. If you live in a dry area or other part of the country where grass grows thin, then you could use a 72" deck. 24hp will give you enough power to do most chores but is still a small tractor. I would consider this the minimum size tractor to consider; but on 9 acres you could easily go up to 30hp or perhaps even 35.
Now given the other tasks in additon to mowing you are on enough property to use a 30hp tractor, those will easily use a 72" mower deck and could take you up to 84" in arrid or cold climates where grass is thinner/sparcer. I would personally opt for a 30hp tractor for 9 acres.
Pretty much any size tractor will handle a PHD. You say you don't want a big FEL, so I'm guessing you don't want a big tractor. Given that, there are some nice 30hp tractors that are fairly small that you might want to consider. There is a lot of interest in 30hp tractors and that creates a lot of confusion. Here is someting that might help you decide what to look at if there are dealers in your area for these brands.
The Deere 790, New Holland TC30 Gear, and MF1233 fill in the value end of the market for 30hp tractors. These machines provide good power and value. This is possible by going with an inexpensive gear boxes for the transmission and PTO and only basic features.
The Mahindra 3015, Kubota
B7800, and the TC30 HST provide value and are a step up in price, they have more advanced transmissions for easier loader work and independent PTO's for running rotary cutters.
The next step up would be Deere's 4310 and Kubota's
B2910, these tractors have all the "whistles & bells" available on a 30HP tractor but are still on a very compact body. Their spec's are on the light side, but they offer many convienances & lots of comfort. I use a
B2910 and can attest to the fact that it is one of the deluxe machine in terms of comfort and ease of use.
Kioti's CK30 and New Holland's TC tractors are on larger frames than the rest of this class, they target customers looking for a slightly larger tractor with higher loader performance. Both offer lots of comfort and features, the NH has the stronger loader with higher lift and is slighly more compact. In some regions the Kioti is priced lower, it is also a large machine for the power class.
Kubota's
L3130 fills the extreme high end of the class; it out specs ever other machine by a large margin. This is also a large machine for the class.
My assessment of the machines is as objective as I can make it. There are some options on some basic machines that can make them more like the more deluxe machines.