I can only tell you what has worked for me.
First, when there is a project being done, get your wife involved. Digging up rocks, planting, yard clean-up. Tell her its just a little more than you can get done today by yourself, and if she'd just give you a hand it will be done and over with today. Once she sees how much physical work that stuff is, she'll soften up. Then...... for the clincher (hopefully you live somewhere cold in winter), get her out there to help you shovel snow !! Having my wife out in winter shoveling not only got me a newer tractor, it got me a tractor with a cab and heat



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Second, show her the value in tractors and implements. I realize this is difficult if you don't already own one, but once my wife saw what a good investment (money-wise) it was...... there was suddenly no problem getting that next implement for that next project. Granted, I generally buy nice used stuff, and not new....... but well kept tractor stuff holds its value. With my first tractor (bought used), I had it three years and used it to clear our overgrown lot. I then leveled a large area behind our barn, removed stumps, and cleared the driveway of snow in winter. When it was time for a little more horsepower........ I sold it and made a $1500 profit. My second tractor came as a package with a couple attachments I didn't need. By the time I got around to wanting to upgrade the tractor again, I sold the tractor and attachments seperately and made $3000. Thats $4500 in profit by buying, USING, and selling (to upgrade) my first two tractors. This doesn't even include the work around here those tractors did while I owned them. With all this in mind, when I decided I wanted (needed?) a few more horses and a cab with heat...... I got ZERO grief over it. If only my wife could get a return like that on the 200 pairs of shoes she has in her closet

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Third, you will find fifty upgrades to your property you'd never imagine tackling without a tractor. I have a few projects coming up...... like replacing some ratty looking concrete steps with reclaimed granite, 'planting' a vintage hitching post in the yard, etc. Things that will go a long way toward giving the house more 'curb appeal', which wifey really likes. We would never be able to afford contractors to do things like this, and the return in equity will be great.
Do plenty of reading here, and one thing you will hear repeatedly from new tractor owners is.... 'i should have bought a tractor years ago!'. I assure you its true! Once you have one, you won't be able to live without one!
