living near an Amish community I made it a point to educate myself about their customs and rules so as not to embarrass anyone. The old order Amish which many think are "The Amish" have elders that decide what the rules are. That is why some do not use any motorized equipment and others do. The younger men seem to always be pushing the boundaries with whats accepted, again this varies from community to community. They do have a time when they are in their teens, Rumspringa it is the time of youth around 15 or 16 before actually joining the church that many in some congregations seem to break the rules. The Amish make a decision to join the church and follow the rules of the congregation as young adults. Their attitude towards work and community are without equal in my humble opinion.