The one thing I see routinely ignored in these conversations is total lifetime minutes or hours spent standing by a pump or charging station. If and when I own an EV, most charging will happen overnight at home, while I sleep. Yes, there will surely be rare occasions when I need to stop and "supercharge" on the road, but if this is one or two days out of 365, I'm still vastly reducing the amount of time refueling on the road over the course of a year or the lifetime of the vehicle.
More importantly than that, is the amount of time I've saved in driving to and from the gas station, as I almost never seem to be conveniently passing one in my daily travels. If I spend 20-30 minutes refueling an EV at a highway rest stop, while taking a leak and picking up a coffee, it could be considered a setback on that trip. But it's still vastly preferable and wasting less of my time each year, than driving across town and standing by a gas pump for 3-4 minutes once every week or two.