Gale,
Back when I was in junior high school, in diesel shop, one guy accidentally hooked up a battery in reverse on a charger and charged it up. When discovered, we all looked in amazement and I've never forgotten it. I don't remember what we did about it.
Anyway, one of the things that can kill batteries, as I recall, is material falling off the plates and gathering below them. Finally the pile gets deep enough to begin shorting the battery. I understand that one of the differences between deep cycle and starting bats is the volume of sediment space below the plates.
I wonder, since you've seen a change in the appearance of the plates, and the batteries you are playing with are old and very sulfated, if you might have shorted batteries that will not respond to your treatment because of that.
Maybe you could rinse them out and replace the acid. If you do, take a hydrometer reading first and try to replace acid with the same reading, I guess.
You mentioned the difficulty of getting a high charge rate out of a charger, if I understood your remarks correctly. Here's a trick that works on a ferro-resonant charger, which is the kind you should be using, as they are dumb. If you can plug the charger into a generator output, you can increase the charger's output by running the generator's engine faster and go from 60 hz to about 61 or 62 hz. This will hotrod the charger and make it's output go way up. I used to do this on my boat to speed up the process. Also, as you probably know, ferro-resonant chargers are battery killers. So once you get the batteries partially charged, switch to a smart charger and bring them all the way up. you might even do a conditioning charge and pull them up to 16 volts.
Keep us posted.