The E-Z lube axles that have a grease fitting in the center of the axle spindle ?
or after-market Spring loaded "Bearing Buddy" cups ?
I thought the latter went out decades ago, I certainly wouldn't buy a trailer with them these days.
Anyway, I have never taken very seriously the notion that a hand grease gun can put out enough pressure at enough volume to blow out the seals.
There is significantly less resistance to the flow of grease through the races/rollers than the seal provides, so the grease flows along the path of least resistance.
What I think happens is that seals wear or don't get installed properly, THEN a hand grease gun squirts grease right through/past them.
Here's what I do;
COUNT the number of strokes it takes for grease to first appear.
On a tandem axle trailer if one takes more strokes than the other three, that extra grease is probably going somewhere it shouldn't, so I take it apart and investigate.
This is the RIGHT time to do it, when the problem is diagnosed and BEFORE the grease gets to the brake linings.
Also, know your trailer & know your grease gun. I cannot tell you if 5 strokes is "normal" or if 4 strokes is "too many".
If you COUNT the strokes every time and do this from new, you will KNOW when a seal is leaking grease out the back and you will be able to replace it before grease gets on the brake linings.