I hope so. Oldest just started high school today and is on the golf team. Youngest started 4th grade and starts cheerleading soon. Minor health issues with the in-laws, too. Life is busy right now.
As far as building a house, our county and state are in the middle of a property tax nightmare. If I take the blueprints of my house to the county, they cannot even give me an estimate of what the property taxes will be because it is based on market value and they have to see the completed house to guestimate what it could sell for. There is no way to budget for them.

Could be anywhere from $2000 to $5000+

Right now my property taxes are only about $600 (six hundred) per year.
Also, I was planning to use the backhoe to install my own septic system. They just changed the rule so that now you have to be a licensed installer to do it.
Anyhow, we will bite the bullet and talk to builders very soon. I would like to get things nailed down and have the foundation poured in early spring. Should be about 1700 Sq feet on first floor with full walkout basement. Entrance hall, living room, dining room/kitchen, guest lav, mud room/laundry and master bedroom/bath on first floor. Large storage room, larger recreation room, study, two bedrooms and full bath on lower level. Utilities on lower level, too. I'm excited yet sick to my stomach at the same time!