I would have never signed the contract if I couldn't watch my own house being built. Since I work nights, I was there nearly every day, and not only caught several mistakes as they happened (easier to fix now than later), but I had total say in everything right down to the spot where I had them drill my well (BEHIND the house).
My builder said that I was a "very particular" person, which I think was a polite way of saying I was a pain in the, uh, neck.
I personally belive my being there minimized the mistakes and poor quality (there was still plenty of issues!), and if I wasn't there, I probably would have a much poorer finished product than what I ended up with. If we had it to do over again, we would have spent more time looking at builders. We had issues, nothing as bad as Paul's ordeal, but still nothing that I would EVER want to go through again! /forums/images/graemlins/mad.gif