Mike, you are correct, it will not handle the load with all that stuff you want to run. It is a shame that Kubota puts such small alternators on their tractors, but I suppose the reality is that 90% of their customers never put more lights on the tractors so it really doesn't matter. I'd recommend you upgrade by following the link Henro provided.
2 55watt lamps are going to draw about 9.2 amps, it is likely that your headlamps are 55 watt units. I can't say what the radio draws, but I suspect it is maybe 1 or 2 amps? Then you have the running lamps, those are going to draw another 3 or 4, so you are already drawing roughly 14 or 15 amps.
Toss on 2 more 100watt lights and you are adding roughly 17 more amps onto your system.
Normally I don't think it is a big deal to draw slightly more than the alternator can recharge for occasional usage because the run time is likely to be fairly short. But as you are looking at roughly doubling the draw on your system, that leaves only the option of upgrading the alternator.