Could it be an issue with the o-rings?
If the flange surfaces are held apart by misplaced o-rings while the component is bolted down, some bad things could happen.
Else wise, it's a case of hydraulic pressure exceeding the design strength of that part.
Does you control valve for the top link have an over pressure return to tank line?
on review of the parts blow up, it does not appear that that mounting flange sees any hydraulic pressure. It only serves to mount the valve assembly to the tractor.
Something must be running into the valve body . Hoses? fittings? or some element on the 3pt lift arms?
You are going to need to look closely as the range of top link and lift arm positions are in operation.
It appears to be "metal to metal" failure.
An irresistible force, meeting an immovable object! ;-)