You need a valve for your remotes.
So you need to decide on 2 remotes, 3, etc.
Valve needs to be open center, AND have an optional power beyond plug.
The line currently running to SUPPLY the backhoe needs to be re-routed and NOW supply the new remote valves.
The Power beyond out of the new valve needs a hose added to get back to where your backhoe hookup was. This is the new supply for the backhoe.
You need to ADD a return to tank somewhere from the new valve. This can be Tee'd in anywhere with an existing return line. (the backhoe return is NOT an actual return line, rather that is the feed for the 3PH).
Then you need to add your rear couplers.....mounted however you wish.
You still need to couple the backhoe lines together when backhoe is detached.
Some clarifications and additional ideas:
From the OPs discussion his tractor and BH have 3 lines that attach to the BH; power (P), power beyond (PB), and tank (T). The new remote valve assembly requires the same 3 ports. He does not need to tee in the tank line somewhere, it is already there. Remote valves are A1 and A2, B1 and B2, and so forth depending on number of controlled circuits. All these abbreviations are standard in the industry. Supply and Power are the same. The new valve should come with a diagram and instruction sheet, if not ask for it. Surplus Center (SC) is real good with that and telephone tech services and their prices, except for shipping, are good. They have an online catalog and a paper one.
You might want to evaluate whether one or more valves need detents. A detent holds the valve in the selected position. Better to order that way than convert later. Also, valves to control motors are different than for cylinders; so, if that is in the future maybe add one of those to the stack. For top and tilt you will probably want to add orifices or manual needle valves to slow down movement of those short cylinders. You can get orifices that go into the fittings. I would get stack-able valves rather than mono blocks as they can be added to or taken away in the future. SC can supply all the things you need except matching to your QCs. I get hoses made local so they are the right length not a compromise.
I cannot envision when you would have the BH and other rear remotes connected at the same time as was mentioned earlier.
Best investment when you start to do your own work like this, is to have the Workshop Manual for your tractor. I would not be without mine as well as the Parts Manual. I have my hydraulic and electrical diagrams almost memorized.
As we all go along into this stuff on hydraulics we gradually learn all the standard terminology. Hard to remember when you do not deal with it often. I am just **** when it comes to terminology. Spent a lifetime in the construction world and it is amazing all the different alternative words are used for the dictionary terms.
Ron