Thank you everyone for taking the time to share your advise on taking a cruise.
This was her idea and what she said she wanted to do with her vacation before she lost it at the end of the year. I was trying to find out when she was taking the time off so I could plan my work and give my clients some warning. That turned into her accusing me of mooching off of her when I came over to eat at her place. Which led to her telling me how much more she was spending and putting into the relationship then I was. This led me to spending time seeing if she was right, and then wondering why in the world it mattered. Dollar wise, I figure I spent three times as much on her as she spent on me, but there's no point in debating it. She isn't the person I thought she was, and it's time to move on.
I still want to take a cruise one of these days, but it's not a priority on my list of things to do. More of a curiosity then anything else.
Thanks,
Eddie