We have 14 acres and horses. If you are only going to have 1 tractor, get one with an FEL. I would recommend something in the 40-60 HP range, for the weight and loader lifting capacity. Take a look at the dealers that are around you and don't be afraid to stop by someone's place where they are using a tractor. Most of us don't mind answering questions about our tractors.
I use the pallet forks more than the bucket to unload stuff off the trailer, pick up limbs, or move hay and stuff around. The extra weight of the FEL smooths out the ride while mowing and keeps the front end from being light. I have 200# of suitcase weights on the front of the Boomer 8N and am going to add 300# more for that very reason. Occasionally the front tires don't stick in a turn so I need more weight up front.
I mow 2 acres around the buildings and arena with the Kubota ZTR. The rest I mow with the Boomer 8N and a 6' cutter, easier to get around trees and such, it does not have an FEL. Mowing is therapy for me, put on my hearing protection connected to music and enjoy myself. Yes, it is hot at times in East Texas, so I either mow early or late evening. Our Kawasaki Mule is used almost every day to pull the manure spreader when we clean stalls. It also pulls a 4'X4' drag harrow to break up manure or level ground after I till it.
Both of my tractors are New Holland. My local dealer quit handling NH not long after I bought the Boomer 8N. I am happy with them, just have to go a ways for service. But that is what a good truck and trailer is for, so you don't have to depend on someone else to do the hauling. I haul hay 3-4 times a year so the 20' Big Tex GN trailer is essential. I buy stall shavings by the pallet from TSC to get a discount. I use the tractor to unload them and a pallet jack to move them around the barn.
Good luck and have fun.