RobJ said:
In the end they took the aero kids in the aero lab to register..no parents allowed.
Rob, that is the best way. That is what happned with our daughter at freshman orientation, all the kids went out, the parents stayed in the auditorium for a lecture and they kids went and signed up for classes. You know what, it was a good thing. I also was freaking out about the schedule and classes. We never did help our daughter ever, she did it all on her own. For our son it was even worse. For some strange reason which we have never figured out why he was invited to attend a leadership camp about 10 days before freshman orientation. So we put him o a plane with 2 suitcases and he had to figure out hw to take the bus from the denver airport over to Boulder and then find out where he was to report for camp. he oved into his dorm on his own with his 2 suitcases and we showed up on Labor Day. Boy was he glad to see us

. In the long run i think starting college and doing it all on your own, picking oyur major signing up for classes on your own is th best way.
Moss road wrote -
Indiana University has a campus in most larger cities in Indiana. Here in South Bend, for example, the average cost per year is only $4,000.00 per year. If you live at home with your folks and get a part time job, you can pay as you go and get out debt free with a degree from a great University in 4 years. Many folks here go on for two more years and get their master's.
If they don't want to live at home with their folks, they can get a roomie or two and share a house and expenses pretty reasonably priced.
There are some great options for education payment. At this price, who needs a scholarship? They help, but really, $4000.00 is less than a hundred bucks a week. Indiana University has a campus in most larger cities in Indiana. Here in South Bend, for example, the average cost per year is only $4,000.00 per year. If you live at home with your folks and get a part time job, you can pay as you go and get out debt free with a degree from a great University in 4 years. Many folks here go on for two more years and get their master's.
If they don't want to live at home with their folks, they can get a roomie or two and share a house and expenses pretty reasonably priced.
There are some great options for education payment. At this price, who needs a scholarship? They help, but really, $4000.00 is less than a hundred bucks a week.
Moss Road, you are right! There are other options for students Indiana sounds like they have a good system.
I really enjoyed reading everybodies posts about thier kids and their accomplishments and challenges. To tell you the truth neither of my kids set the world on fire academicaly when they were in High School. My daughter we found out 2 weeks before graduation form high School that she was so severly learning disabled that she got a full ride at our state university. Can you believe it she got completely through high school and the girl could barely read. Now I know you all are going to say as a parent you surely would have found out and how I must have been irresponsible. It was completely the opposit I assure you. every night I had to help her with her homework and she was very clever. Quiz me on this, quiz me on that... and when she wouldn't knwo she would have me read her the correct sections in the text. She was able to succeed because she trained her memory. She memories all phone numbers bank account numbers etc. it is very hard for her to read a phone book, so she simply memorized. She is an excellent listner, she ahs to b because it is a lot of effort to read text books. Finally her accounting teacher sent he to the nurse for evaluation because she would transpose and write he numbers backwards. turns out the gal was dyslexic.
At the univertiy she went early and was put in a program for students with learning disabilites. they taught her strategies on how to compensate for her disability and how to study in different ways. They provided tutors, and most importantly she was part of a group of students with learning disabilities and they supported each other. Took her 5 1/2 years but she did graduate magan *** Laude and went on to get her masters degree in special education and aced her program with a 4.0.
It is fun and exciting to read about your kids and the different things they are doing and studying. Some firends of ours, their son got a free ride to Stanford university that he turned it down becsue his girlfriend was going to UW Madison. He flunked out of Madison, and he was a bright kid. So being bright and being a star in high school is no guarantee of success in college.
Our kids were not academic stars but they both succeded ery well in college. The good thing about our friends son, he went to a local technical college and got his associate degree, then we went to UW Milwaukee and got his bachelors degree. That is the good thing about America, at any point in your life you can pick yourself up and try again. Over here in France it is not like that. If you don't go to college right out of high school you will never have an opportunity to go as an adult. the education is very ridgid and inflexible here. The American system is much much better. The American system allows for second chances.
The one good thing we did was we had the kids pay for their first semester and we paid for the second semester. So it was their money to start out with and i think that put them on the right path. If you are doing cost sharing with your kids, have them pay for the whole first semester on their own and you pay all of the second semester. Our kids had a college account of their own money that we forced them to save into out of their earnings from jobs they had during thier high school years. That money was the first money paid towards tuition and expenses.