I would imagine that there's some sort of calculation you have to do that takes into consideration the length of the wooden beam and such... yes? And, how will you be able to leverage that getup to measure "actual" tongue weight with it loaded?
yes that is why there is a tape measure in on the ground....
1 foot to the jack on the right, 2 feet to the jack on the left. mulitiply the reading on the bathroom scale by 3 to get actual tongue weight. (if you use equal dimentions ie 1 foot right 1 foot right, then you mulitply by 2 but for 800-900lbs tongue weight your bathroom scale doesnt go to 400 lbs so your SOL have to use x3)
as to how to do it loaded. it is loaded (see my tractor in on the trailer in the background)
process for me was...
drive tractor on to trailer with it hooked up to the tow vehical.
place a jack under the rear of the trailer (light pressure on trailer)
block trailer wheels
use tongue jack to raise trailer off of ball
pull tow vehical forward to make room
lower tongue jack till trailer is level (seriously use a builders lvl its important)
lower jack at under rear to the point its showing 1/2" air gap (leave in place for safety)
double check level of trailer
set height of jack stands and 2x4 so that it will carry load at tongue-level-dimention
jack tongue up a few inches, move setup under tongue... lower back down
with trailer wheels blocked i can move the tractor slightly on the trailer to adjust tongue weight reading scale directly.
mark location of tractor on trailer
back tow vehical up, hook up trailer and adjust my WDH so that height of the tongue sits level and i have the right "squat" on the rear of my tow vehical (see setting up a WDH online youtube vids)
this gives me a calibrated setup to measure other loads against.