At the moment you probably won't save money buying a diesel, especially if you aren't doing any really hard work with it (pulling trailers over 5000lbs, etc.). The initial price is a lot of it - figure $6000 more in most cases. Diesel has been 20-50 cents/gallon more than regular unleaded around here, which just about balances the BTU content. The diesel engines are still more efficient, but it will take a long time to break even. And maintenance is more - slightly more if you do it yourself, lots more if you let the dealer do it because they seem to rip you off for diesel maintenance (e.g. $100 for an oil change on my Ram/Cummins, which takes 12 quarts of 15x40 diesel oil (which is about $24 total, even less in bulk) and a $6 filter, and the labor is no more than it would take on a gas pickup of any type).
I have two diesels - a 2006 Dodge Ram and 2005 Jeep CRD. I'm happy with both, but the 2007 emissions requirements killed the CRD and raised the price of the Ram while compromising the design of its engine. I would still buy a diesel for heavy towing, but most lighter uses I don't think it's worth it.
This won't help you now, but in a couple years there are likely to be diesels that are better priced and more common. Just mentioning it so you don't decide to avoid diesels forever.