You didn't say what you want to do with this camera, if you want quality pics you need to go with the DSLR (i shoot a Nikon D700) and the photos are great. Full size sensor and many lenses to shoose from. Make sure the camera will shoot RAW files for future editing ...If you just want a camera for snapshots, then pretty much any nikon, canon, sony... will suffice. Go hold them in your hand and see which feels better and has the feature you want. I have a little larger hand and prefer the point and shoots that are slightly larger (easier for me to hold), my wife likes the smaller cameras that fit in her purse easier. A great point and shoot is the Canon G10 or G11, nice controls (IMHO) and will also shoot a raw file which you don't see on many point and shoots.
Good luck and show us your pics
Good luck and show us your pics