yep, the washers on those plugs look pretty specialized and I could tell that it was the washer that formed the seal. I was attempting to match the factory pressure levels on those washers when the thread got jumped. I guess I'll find out if slightly past 'hand tight' is enough pressure to hold the seal. Best case, Kubota writes back and says "yeah, we've had some issues with this in the past ur not the first one, we'll send a trailer out to get it and replace that part lickedy-split", worst case we've got an automotive repair place across the road from us I might go ask to see how much they'd charge to re-bore a drain plug hole and compare that to the self-boring plugs mentioned earlier.