Kyle_in_Tex
Super Star Member
That's one place where you and I differ Dave. While I hope that the work I put into this property is appreciated and carried forth when I'm gone, there's nothing unique about it, so why should I control it from the grave. (Although current plan is to be buried here next to my dogs.)
I honestly don't know if I still belong to SWOAM; I can't remember if I paid my dues this year or not.
One big issue I had is the way that they push the trusts. An example of a good trust, where people got organized for the common good is here...https://www.downeastlakes.org
I won't mention the other side of the equation, because I don't wish to siderail a good thread.
PS to OP, you've asked a very good question, I hope that it generates a lot of discussjon.
Its OK to have differences. I want the diversity.... if we can just keep from arguing. Shouldn't be much to argue about. All I hope is that it gets thoughts and methods from those who have already decided, to those of us who haven't decided.
Many of us are older, and talking about these decisions can be tough, but I feel they are worth it for our descendants.
When my uncle passed away last year, he had a very special folder, at the front of his file cabinet. My cousin told me how well he had planned everything, including the songs at his funeral. His death was unexpected. He put the will, all bank accounts, credit card info, passwords, I mean everything all neatly put into the folder. Besides grief, my cousin was actually very relieved that he had created it and it took away most of the anxieties among the siblings about the whole situation.