I'm afraid that if you have a piece of equipment designed for commercial operation with a 'higher than AG" pressure rating, all of the stuff at TSC etc with standard end fittings may be useless. No-one seemed to pick up on the fact that I need 5000psi working pressure rated hose and fittings. Thats probably also why the hoses dont last that long since damage tolerance at 5000psi is lower than at say 1800psi. If your equipment lives its life outdoors with constant sun exposure, that is yet another factor in determining life expectancy.
Ive been too busy the last couple of years to do the hydraulic rebuild on my backhoe, although I do have the HST pump and main hydraulic pump matched to the HST outlet shaft sitting in my garage. Where I live right now, I have a good vendor to make hoses for me with a couple of day turn around time and I source the hose and fittings and give them a crimp sheet for the fittings. But once I make a move to a more rural location, getting hoses made may involve a much longer drive and wait.
When I replaced the hoses on the hoe itself, I tried to identify the sources of damage and concluded that overconstraint in some clamp blocks as well as rocks getting captured in some confined areas and then smashing the hoses when at the limit of travel were major contributors. I ran all the hoses through a vinyl coated firehose at the bottom of the boom to keep out the rocks and grit and put an abrasion resistant layer between the hose jacket and the aggressive environment at that most susceptible point. In the years since the hoe does not leak at all, now it is the loader joystick, pair of backhoe joysticks and hoe steering cylinders that seem to leak the most. I also want to replace the loader hoses since they are original and I don't want them to fail when I have something valuable in the bucket....
In the meantime I got myself a Kubota tractor that is late 70's vintage (M4500DT) and will be building a loader for it, since aftermarket loader companies want as much for their loaders as I paid for the tractor. With ~50hp PTO, this machine has enough power to run more serious hydraulic power implements, like bigger front mounted brush hogs and the like. Cant have possessions without having to maintain and repair them....