Yeah, like no one would be upset with the **** that was going on at the Steven's house in a residential neighborhood. It's called disturbing the peace. When your activities infringe on your neighbors you're at fault. It was her business to begin with. It's no different than your neighbors shooting fireworks over your property, shooting fireworks at all hours of the day and night, dumping chemicals into their septic system that will affect the aquifer, not having properly working septic systems, using excessive chemicals on their lawn, driving fast in a residential area, having large loud parties frequently, plowing their snow into the street, aiming spotlights at your house, letting their dogs and cats roam, etc....
It's a matter of fact that a lot of people actually LIKE a home owners association. It sets clear rules as to expected behavior, property maintenance, uses, etc... and hopefully helps to maintain property values. You know what to expect in the future.
Are there HOA problems? Of course. But another matter of fact is that in most cases, the person complaining is not in compliance with the rules that they knew about when they purchased. You only read about HOA horror stories. You never hear about all the happy people who's HOA's are working properly day in and day out.