Very similar situation. Out of curiosity which 3/4 ton route did you go? If doing again would you do the same? Change anything?
I bought a RAM 2500 diesel. No particular reason going with Dodge. I bought the truck used with 11,000 miles and the price was right. Its a crew cab, 4wd.
Overall I like the truck. Its not a daily driver. I have a work vehicle. I average about 16 mpg around home. That's back roads mainly with a little town driving. No interstates where I live. Had it for a year now and put almost 10,000 miles on it.
A friend of mine bought a new F250 diesel. One thing I would consider if buying a Ford would be a 350. The rear springs on the 250 give a nice ride, but when a load is put on it they sag too much for my liking. With little towing though I don't see the difference.
The RAM doesn't squat much. Just levels out. I will say that his ford pulling my same trailer will pull better (acceleration). Not trying to start a "who is better" argument. Just my opinion.
Any truck these days are nice and with all the money you pay for them better test drive to see what you like. And as another poster said, plan ahead. The reason for me getting a diesel. Who knows, maybe a camper or larger trailer in my future. The extra weight of the heavier truck is definitely safer when stopping.
I would not change a thing for my needs. Just a gooseneck trailer, but that's another thread.