Half isn't exact, it's general jargon, meaning weight is transferred.
If the weight was "directly" centered above the lower pivot point, it would take all the load. But normally this is not the case. Replace the top link with your hands and see how much load is transferred to the tractor via the top link .
The tractor carries the entire weight but it is carried on the lift arms(transferred back to the tractor) and on the top link ( transferred back to the tractor)
I'm not going to do all the drawings and angles and calculations of weight/force but this may help out.
Think of a box, 1 yard x 1 yard x 2ft high. The box weighs 500lbs (but can weigh anything).
Person 1 lifts one end up 2", leaving the other end on the ground (pivot point), Person 1 is lifting 250lbs. Person 2 now lifts the other end 2" off the ground at the same time, Person 1 and Person 2 are now both lifting 250lbs each.
The 3pt arms connect to the bottom end of the box. You don't have a top link connected
Person 1 raises the lift arms up 2", the tractor has 250lbs transferred onto it. Person 2 now lifts the other end 2", the tractor still has 250lbs and Person 2 has 250lbs. Person 1 attaches the top link to the top of the box.
Tractor now has 500lbs load on it. But it doesn't have 500lbs on the pivot point, as a percentage is transferred to the tractor via the top link. I would need to find my old trigonometry books and draw it up exactly to spec to calculate it.