Indicator works, when l put new plugs into works great but you can tell after about 3 uses it really slow lighting up and when the plugs are toast it doesn't light up at all
When you turn the key right to start I wonder if the glow plugs are getting to much juice and burning out. If you hooked a light to the glow plugs it would show when they or on and how long
At over-voltage you get a swelling/melting from the inside out (or no visible damage). The damages on your plugs seem very much to come from cold diesel fuel sprayed over the hot tip of the "bulb", causing it to crack, when the engine is running.
Do not buy anything yet, apart from plugs.
Check the timing and the injectors, before you put the new plugs in.
And look for/clean out parts from the damaged plugs inside the cylinder.