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wroughtn_harv
Super Member
Bill I see two wonderful things happening at this time.
First is the kids are smarter and some are turning to hands on work and my gawd they are good at what they're doing.
Secondly the most important thing to continue a tradition is happening. The older folks are talking about it with respect.
Just think about how many of your motivations and interests come from overhearing your elders talking when you were a kid. They didn't know they were impressing upon you the rules of life but they were.
Everything from hearing the aunts talk about a woman acting cheap and you forming an opinion about cheap acting women to hearing your father and friends talking about so and so and the quality of his work and the work ethic he had.
People are reaching back and treasuring the tangible. Also I'm seeing young people wanting to learn the trades not just as a means of support but because it's an art form and there is so much satisfaction in making things.
I wish I could make more money than I do. But I've resigned myself to just having fun and getting by. One of my friends who is very well off and who just loves to be around me working put me in my place about whining about not getting rich off of my ideas and passions.
He explained to me that it wouldn't be fair for me to have so much fun and make money too.
I suspect he's right. I see him with all the money and in his eyes is true envy of my getting to have fun.
I apologize for coming off as coy. I don't take compliments well, one of my many character flaws. And I do see my good fortune as good luck and less the result of actual effort on my part. When things are viewed from that perspective it's hard to claim or accept credit.
I like to think I was blessed with the best kind of laziness. The kind that knows there has to be an easier way and I've got to find it. I am also most fortunate in having a father who talked about those who worked well with respect. It wasn't until I was almost fifty that one day it hit me that for all these years I'd been working to get my father's respect. And that I'd had it since I was in my twenties. I can't really see how one can claim credit for having such a person for a father or being born lazy. It's almost like someone complimenting you on the look on your face you get when you eat a sundae on a hot day.
First is the kids are smarter and some are turning to hands on work and my gawd they are good at what they're doing.
Secondly the most important thing to continue a tradition is happening. The older folks are talking about it with respect.
Just think about how many of your motivations and interests come from overhearing your elders talking when you were a kid. They didn't know they were impressing upon you the rules of life but they were.
Everything from hearing the aunts talk about a woman acting cheap and you forming an opinion about cheap acting women to hearing your father and friends talking about so and so and the quality of his work and the work ethic he had.
People are reaching back and treasuring the tangible. Also I'm seeing young people wanting to learn the trades not just as a means of support but because it's an art form and there is so much satisfaction in making things.
I wish I could make more money than I do. But I've resigned myself to just having fun and getting by. One of my friends who is very well off and who just loves to be around me working put me in my place about whining about not getting rich off of my ideas and passions.
He explained to me that it wouldn't be fair for me to have so much fun and make money too.
I suspect he's right. I see him with all the money and in his eyes is true envy of my getting to have fun.
I apologize for coming off as coy. I don't take compliments well, one of my many character flaws. And I do see my good fortune as good luck and less the result of actual effort on my part. When things are viewed from that perspective it's hard to claim or accept credit.
I like to think I was blessed with the best kind of laziness. The kind that knows there has to be an easier way and I've got to find it. I am also most fortunate in having a father who talked about those who worked well with respect. It wasn't until I was almost fifty that one day it hit me that for all these years I'd been working to get my father's respect. And that I'd had it since I was in my twenties. I can't really see how one can claim credit for having such a person for a father or being born lazy. It's almost like someone complimenting you on the look on your face you get when you eat a sundae on a hot day.