We have some movies we really like about Christmas. Each Christmas we try to see them together (my wife an I) and just enjoy the season together. Movies like Holiday Inn, The Man Who Saved Christmas, Going My Way and The Bishop's Wife.
We no longer get gifts for each other, but do for visitors if they are here. Christmas Eve and Day are important to us. Each year we buy a special tree decoration. We keep the box and in the box we put a note of all the things and memories we have done throughout the year. They are a stamp of our life together. In earlier years, we used to go to Midnight Mass at the Cathedral. We don't get each other gifts because it is not about that for us. We usually get what we need anyway during the year. Being together and happy is very nice.
We have evolved to this way of Christmas. When kids were home, we would have many presents for each other and the kids. Being together as a family was important. Nice breakfast and visiting with friends and relatives.