Back in 2000 when I built my house, the local power company wanted $27,000 to run approx. 1/4 mile of line to my house.
When all was said and done, I paid just over $7000 for everything.
Not to take anything away from you bd (initiative, and thinking on your feet always score points with me), but if you can save 20 large just on your first rodeo, the utilities obviously don't want word spreading about how much easy money they are scooping up here.
Everybody's motivation and pain levels will vary..... personally, the further it gets past $2 or $3k for a hookup, my motivation to go off-grid increases proportionally..... YMMV.
Rgds, D.