</font><font color="blue" class="small">( Thanks for that info . . . So the neutral really is just a very good ground. I had a dilemma a while ago . . . I didn't want to have to run a neutral all the way back to main box, so I tried to make my own neutral with a series of ground rods. . . but now I think that my ground was just not conductive enough to accept the current. )</font>
The neutral is the return line in a 115 volt circuit, it shouldn't actually be needed in a 230 volt system unless the load is being split--which appears to be your case.
|--115 v--| --115 v--|
|-------220 v---------|
^ black wire
-----------^ white wire
------------------------^ another black or sometimes a red wire
Between the two 115 volt hot wires there is 230 volts.
It is dangerous to assume neutral is ground and vice versa. Neutral, the white wire, is "bonded" to an earth ground at one point in your home's system [and may be bonded to earth again in a shop or outbuilding]. The normal return is this white wire and the ground (a bare wire or green wire) is there for safety purposes.
Ground Fault Circuit Interruptor, GFCI, safety devices depend on this distinction. They look for ground return current and if they find any they trip the circuit open. Some work by measuring the current on the hot and return (neutral) lines, and if they aren't equal they trip the circuit open--because that means current is flowing some place it shouldn't be, like in the ground/earth circuit, and that current may be electrocuting you. When a system uses the earth intentionally as a return, besides being dangerous, it confuses all the safety devices.
Besides being against the National Electric Code, NEC, the reason it is dangerous to use the ground/earth as a return is the earth isn't a good conductor and sometimes the grounds aren't properly tied down If the system is returning juice through the ground/earth you might happen to be a better conductor for return electricity and it will pass through you. How might this happen? How about grabbing a pipe while standing on a damp floor, brushing up against a piece of equipment that has a loose ground, etc. Previous posts have a few fine bad examples.
Excuse the rant. Please--safety first! Live long, live to ride.