...I've got some feelers out for reclaimed asphalt ... seems to be less expensive and possibly better over time?
Reclaimed asphalt is good for a road surface, but only as a top layer to something already solid underneith it. It does not have any strength to it, no matter how thick you put it down.
Road base, which also has a dozen different names around the country, is a type of rock that is so varied in size,that when compacted, it forms a solid layer. The size of the rock is critical. It has to be big enough to offer support, but also has to have all those smaller sizes to COMPLETELY compact with itself. The edges MUST have sharp, angular edges. Round rock, like river rock is totally worthless. The the tiny little pebbles in asphault are round.
Five years is pretty good for a gravel road to remain in decent shape. Of course, the amount of use it receives and how much water sits on it, also has a big factor in it's lifespan. One of the worse things you can do to a gravel driveway is to smooth it out once it's compacted. Every time you go over it, you loosen it up and make it a bit thinner. Dave said that 6 inches is what's used in his area, and that would really make a very strong road. 4 inches is the minimum. Once the gravel gets thinner then 4 inches, it no longer has the ability to lock together. Once it starts to move, water can get into it and wash away your fines. Then you will start having potholes and low spots.
To fix this, and for periodic maintenance, you have to loosen up the surrounding rock and add NEW rock. Just adding rock to a low spot will accomplish nothing. You HAVE TO loosen it and dig up the old stuff to mix it in with the new stuff.
Since I don't live in an area where it snows, I can't speak for snow removal on a gravel road. From what I know about roads and rock, I would make sure that I NEVER touched the road when removing the snow. Leave an inch of snow on the gravel. Every time you desturb the rock, you start the process of it washing away. If you never touch it, it will last for decades. Driving on it disturbes it, so that's where your periodic maintenance and replacement of lost rock comes into play.
I own part of an old Army Base that was built in 1942. I have part of a road that was left sitting for 60 years without anybody driving on it. In those years, there is no sign of it eroding or wearing out. I can't speak for what condition it was in when they closed down the base, but just guessing, it's in remarkable condition for all those years in an area that gets almost 4 feet of rain in an average year, with 2 to 4 inch downpours not being uncommon. Sadly, I tore it up for other things and changed the road around to meet my needs.
Good luck,
Eddie