I asked that question once and got boo'd off the stage by all the HAM-sters on u-toob.......but yeah agree indeed....and pray it does not come to that either.
I wouldn´t pay too much attention to that kind of response (the utube). Just know and follow the rules. That kind of response is problematic for for promoting and continuing the hobby for many and is not acceptable.
I entered this hobby many years ago when I taught electricity and electronics in high school - and sponsored a radio club. Then in later years, before the bag cell phones (that cost about 8-$10 in fees per call) I put a 2 meter radio in all the vehicles so that my wife and I could keep in contact while away.
Today, when working on our small acreage, we use still use 2 meter hand held radios to keep in contact when out working. There is a 2 meter transceiver on the tractor. Amateur radio has many different uses and the license levels can be very easy at entry level. Years ago, most levels required a morse code test. I had to pass the 20 word test for my license back then. That is no longer the case.
You may prefer to listen to short wave and that is good. Also a hobby. Many got a amateur license because of their interest in listening to information from a distance. Or, maybe in the future you may choose to obtain your license.
But remember, whatever your interest level, it is your choice and should not be subjected to judgement of others as long as you follow the rules.
I will also mention that a lot of the attitude about judgment you experienced may have come from years ago when citizens band was confused by many to be the same as amateur radio. Citizens band has been unregulated and a free for all. Many people do not know that at one point CB also required a license, but on request, not tested to qualify.
The entry level - Novice - license is not technical, but mostly about operating rules regarding transmitting, and more narrow band options, including 2 and meter.
Sorry so long. Hope i did not bore you too much.