Just starting with your statement “the transaxle is the weakest link “ Is false on its own. Every tractor made, from every manufacturer, has weak and strong points. Pretty much any part failed, will put the tractor out of use.
If you open your mind up a bit, you would realize that starting batteries, followed by computer systems are the weakest link. Alternators, water pumps, fuel injectors, fuel pumps, are all much “weaker links “ in a tractor than the transmission.
Just pursue this site for failures..
And again , without knowing a specific load %, and without knowing where in the rpm range, the engine develops maximum torque, you can’t make a blanket statement that torque will go down and the transmission will last longer. That’s nonsense.
You’re also ignoring components that wear more from unnecessary rotations, such as alternators, oil seals, water pumps, camshafts, valves, valve springs, and on and on..