Scooterg,
One thing about TBN is that you will get a lot of different viewpoints and experiences. I like that. So.... from my perspective, I wouldn't have a tractor without a backhoe. That's my experience. I have used it almost as much as the FEL. It sounds like your uses might be similar to mine and quite frankly when I was shopping I really didn't think I would use a BH that much. Thank God my wife talked me into it. ( She has visions of me digging a swimming pool for her someday.) The BH can be used for a variety of tasks that require finesse as well as brute stength. I have used it to dig stumps, 2 ponds and a river connecting them, logging/firewood cutting, digging up big rocks, installing sprinkler systems, trenches for wire and plumbing, sod removal and even weeding in some of the areas that have gotten away from us. These are just a few of the applications that I can think of right now. I have dug up about 25 stumps on my property, varying sizes and locations. These were mostly done spur of the moment. We wouldn't have done it if we had to go rent a machine to remove them. I just really like the idea of having the capability so that when we get an idea, we can do it right now. Kevin makes a good point if you have several to do in an area, but if you are planning on "progressive" landscaping like we are doing, the ability to look at a tree and think..."it could be gone by this afternoon" is a pretty good feeling, not to mention a lot of fun... Just one more perspective.
Greg