Covering your tracks is definitely a plus, offset by less ability to maneuver. All due respect to your dealer, but I'm still thinking you have the ponies to pull something bigger than 6ft., if it's mostly pasture mowing.
Just for comparison, I pull a 6' Befco medium duty cutter with my 46hp Kubota, and the only time it even works the engine a little is in thick, wet grass being cut really low. Most of the time it loafs along with no drop in rpm, even though I only run it at maybe 2/3 of full PTO speed, with all the ground speed you'd want without getting crazy. Always figured the Kubota could have handled an 84", but my acreage didn't demand it.
You have almost half again the hp of my rig and more weight, so I'd certainly expect you should be able to go up another size on your cutter also.
Wonder if your dealer would let you "road test" an 84" for an afternoon out at your place to see how it works with your TN. If you are regarded as a regular customer and he knows he's got a sale of either a 6ft or a 7ft, he might let you try out a 7 footer before making a commitment one way or the other.