Ok i finally got it figured out somewhat.  First I traced all my lines and made sure they were in right place then stsrted adjusting relief valve on loader control valve. Lo and behold it started working.  Thank you Jesus.  I had to run adjustment screw in further than it was originally also now when bucket is curled all the way or lifted all the way up I am getting a whining noise. Is this the pump cavitating or is it the relief valve