First, I have a friend with
L2850 and a bush hog brand loader... I can look at his (only problem it's 3 hours away). I don't know for sure since I don't know what valves you have but you should have 3 lines going to your loader. One is High pressure IN and one line (PB) high pressure OUT, the third one is Low pressure return to the tank/transmission. I plumbed a 3 valve spool (yours is 6) after the FEL but before the 3ph.
NO, you have to feed the 3ph. Power goes from one thing to the next with everything connected in a line (in series).
Fluid (power) goes from the Pump to FEL, then the 3PH. It does not feed both at the same time (that would be a Closed System).
Use the power out (PB) from the FEL to feed the spool, return the power beyond from the spool to where the FEL had gone before (so it can feed the 3ph). You have to have a low pressure return to the tank from your backhoe 6 spool. This is the only line you can "T" into. I "T" into the FEL Low pressure return line with mine.
Can you post a photo of it? IF you don't know how to post a photo, let us know and we can show you).
Actually it's not THAT simple (you need a low pressure return line, too) but basically, Yes you can do that.
The PB port on your FEL is actually already powering your 3ph in series (one after another). To test it, run the tractor while you are raising the 3ph, lift your bucket up at the same time and your 3ph will lose it's "power" because the FEL is using all of it.