Thanks for the note.
On tools. Probably the most used metal-working tool I have is a home-made vertical bandsaw, using a DeWalt portable bandsaw as the power head. After that, a 70 year old Duro drill press. I am not very good at welding or cutting, so I got a modern Miller 211 welder and a Hypertherm Powermax45 plasma cutter. They get me from awful to passable. I also have a 70 year old Craftsman lathe and equally old Benchmaster milling machine. I seldom use either, but from time to time they are indispensable.
On the quick coupler. I didn't need it until I installed the thumb, which shares a bucket pin. That made changing buckets a serious chore. I bought that one from Bxpanded rather than make it. Another member here, LD1, once commented that it really does not make sense to fabricate stuff that you can get for a decent price commercially. So after 2 years of planning to make it, I finally just bought it!
On the thumb, I did a writeup. If you google
B21 Backhoe Thumb it will come up.
There are many folks on this forum with huge knowledge and skills and willing to help. So I would say, just start in on what you want to do, put it up here, and go for it!